Let me ask you something. If someone prays for patience, you think God gives them patience, or does he give them the opportunity to be patient? If he prays for courage, does God give him courage, or does he give him opportunities to be courageous? If someone prays for the family to be closer, do you think God zaps them with warm fuzzy feelings, or does he give them opportunities to love each other? PS. After being on this site for a long time, it was about time to update the pictures (they are between 1 and 5 years old)