I live near Berlin with my two sons (19 and20) and work independently in online advertising and financial consulting. My days are full, sometimes intense — but I’ve learned to value calm, clarity and substance over constant distraction. I enjoy both worlds: focused work and quiet evenings, good conversations and time alone with a book, music or a guitar. I read a lot, listen to music obsessively (jazz, classical, soul, rock — almost everything with depth), and I like movement: cycling, running short distances, working out a few times a week. I prefer thinking for myself, questioning mainstream narratives, I need ideas, curiosity, contradictions. What I’m looking for ----------------------------- I’m drawn to women who have an inner life: thoughts beneath the surface, their own views, emotional depth, and the courage not to adapt themselves just to fit in. You don’t chase trends — you choose what feels right to you. I appreciate both inner calm and inner fire. You can be reflective, but you also know how to enjoy life, smile easily, and meet the world with lightness — whether because you’re aware of your presence or because you can laugh at yourself. I’m not interested in collecting matches or endless writing without direction. I prefer honest communication that can slowly move from words to real moments — calls, meetings, shared experiences — if it feels right for both.