The most important attribute that I am seeking is a woman who is secure and confident with herself. She must be intelligent, affectionate, playful, willing to travel, love to cook with me, enjoy a nice glass of wine, and be happy. She would love to: read, see films, be treated with respect, be kept warm on a cold winter night. I love all of these things that I have mentioned above...they describe me well. But I also love to golf, attend and watch sporting events...I'm loving the World Cup right now! Cooking is something I really enjoy, and have been following recipes from Julia Child recently...delicious. There is a spiritual side to me as well and enjoy the community of my church. Music is very important to me also..I am constantly adding new music to my iPod. Sharing myself sexually is important and I enjoy a woman who is not afraid to try things beyond the ordinary!