first of all I'm looking for compatibility and chemistry. I'm not a dreamer anymore like i was 10 years ago. i do believe in love and finding the right person but its not just about looks and having fun anymore. id like to find an intelligent girl i can talk to. someone i can trust and share my intimate details about myself with. Someone with good values and is family oriented. id like a woman that respects herself because only then can she respect someone else. likewise, she must be happy with herself because only then can she be happy and love her partner. I'd like someone i can be myself around most important and we absolutely enjoy each others company.